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Reset & Refocus: 5 Simple Ways to Get Back on Track This Fall

9/8/2025

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 Summer distractions don’t have to derail your goals.
Learn 5 simple, realistic ways to reset your fitness and nutrition this fall so you can feel confident heading into the holidays.



Summer tends to fly by in a blur of travel, cookouts, and busy schedules. If you feel like you didn’t make the progress you wanted these past few months, you’re not alone. The good news? September is the perfect time to reset, refocus, and commit to simple habits that will carry you through the holidays feeling stronger, healthier, and more confident.

Here are five actionable steps you can start today:

1. Rebuild Your Routine With Small Wins
Don’t feel like you need to “go all in” right away. Instead, start by picking one or two healthy habits you know you can stick to — like walking 10 minutes after lunch or hitting your protein target at breakfast. Small wins create momentum and consistency, which matters more than perfection.


2. Prioritize Strength Training Over Endless Cardio
If fat loss and confidence are your goals, resistance training should be your foundation. Even two to three sessions per week can make a big difference in metabolism, strength, and energy. Plus, building muscle helps your body burn more calories at rest.


3. Fuel Your Body (Don’t Starve It)
Skipping meals or cutting calories too hard usually backfires — leaving you hungry, tired, and more likely to binge later. Instead, focus on eating enough lean protein, fiber-rich carbs, and healthy fats to fuel your day. Balanced meals keep blood sugar stable and make fat loss sustainable.


4. Get Back to Basics With Sleep & Stress
It’s easy to overlook, but your sleep quality and stress levels play a massive role in fat loss and overall health. Aim for 7–9 hours of sleep and carve out even 5 minutes for deep breathing, journaling, or stretching. You’ll notice a difference in energy and cravings almost immediately.


5. Set a “Mini Goal” Before the Holidays
Rather than thinking about everything you want to achieve, pick a short-term goal to aim for between now and Thanksgiving. Maybe it’s losing 5 pounds, increasing your squat weight, or simply fitting into your favorite jeans more comfortably. Short deadlines keep motivation high.


✅ Remember: Fall is a fresh start, not a punishment for summer. You don’t need to overhaul your life to see results — just focus on consistency with the basics.

If you’re ready for accountability and a clear plan, I can help you simplify the process and finally reach your goals without restriction or burnout. Book a free discovery call here →

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Why You’re Not Losing Fat in Your 40s — And What Actually Works

7/19/2025

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Struggling to Lose Fat in Your 40s? You’re Not Alone — and You’re Not Broken

If you’re in your 40s and feel like your body is fighting against every effort to lose fat, I promise you this: you're not crazy, lazy, or doing it all wrong. The reality is, what worked in your 20s and 30s just doesn't work the same anymore — and there’s a good reason for that.

Let’s break it down and talk about what actually does work when it comes to fat loss for women over 40.


 Your Metabolism Has Changed — But It’s Not “Broken”

One of the biggest myths I hear from women is that their metabolism is “shot.”

The truth? Your metabolism may have slowed, but it can absolutely be reignited.
  • Muscle mass naturally declines as we age, which lowers your resting metabolic rate.
  • Crash dieting or skipping meals can further damage metabolism.
  • Chronic stress, poor sleep, and hormonal shifts (hello, perimenopause) add another layer of complexity.

💡 What works: Strength training, eating enough protein, managing stress, and building muscle back.


 Hormones in Your 40s Are Not the Enemy — But They Need Support

As estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone begin to shift, many women experience:
  • Increased belly fat
  • Slower recovery
  • Mood changes and poor sleep

These hormonal changes can impact how your body stores fat and how easy it is to lose it.
💡 What works:
  • Prioritize fiber-rich carbs and healthy fats
  • Lift weights to support insulin sensitivity and lean muscle
  • Get at least 7 hours of sleep
  • Walk daily and move consistently — even if it’s not a “workout”

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 You Might Be Eating Too Little — Or the Wrong Combo of Foods

Many women I work with come to me eating too little during the day, then binge or crave carbs at night. Sound familiar?
That’s often a sign your body is under-fueled and over-stressed.
Plus, as we age, protein becomes even more important to protect muscle and support metabolism.


💡 What works:
  • Eat balanced meals with protein, fiber, and healthy fats
  • Don’t skip breakfast or rely only on salads
  • Aim for 25–30g of protein per meal


 Cardio Alone Won’t Cut It Anymore

If you’ve been doing tons of cardio and not seeing results, you’re not alone.
The truth is, cardio burns calories—but lifting weights changes your body.


💡 What works:
  • Strength training 2–3x/week
  • Walking for stress relief and recovery
    Mobility work to reduce joint pain and stay active long-term


✅ Sustainable Fat Loss After 40 Comes From a Smarter, Not Harder, Approach

It’s not about dieting harder or pushing through exhaustion.

It’s about working with your body — not against it.

And guess what? You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
My coaching method is built specifically for women like you — who want fat loss that lasts, without extremes or restriction.



 Let’s Chat About Your Goals

If you’re ready to finally lose the fat, build strength, and feel confident again…

📲 Click here to book a free discovery call — and let’s build a plan that works for your body and your life.

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How to Finally Make Fat Loss Simple, Sustainable, and Actually Stick

5/3/2025

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Coach Kayli

NASM Certified Personal Trainer and NCI Certified Nutrition Coach specializing in women’s health, fat loss, and mindset transformation.

Summer is almost here—and if you’re like most women I coach, you’re probably feeling a little pressure to "get it together" before the season hits full swing. Maybe you’ve tried to start over more times than you can count. You’ve done the crazy cardio routines, skipped meals, cut carbs, and downloaded another free challenge hoping this time it will stick.
But let me tell you something powerful:

It’s not too late. You don’t need to be perfect. And you definitely don’t need to punish your body to feel confident this summer.
The next 90 days can look and feel completely different—not because you finally found the "magic fix," but because you focused on what actually works.
Let’s break it down.

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Why Most Fat Loss Plans Don’t Work (And What to Do Instead)

The biggest mistake I see women make this time of year?
They go all in.
  • 5-6 workouts a week
  • Barely eating
  • Hoping for the scale to drop fast

    And then life happens. A busy week. A skipped workout. A weekend of pizza and wine. Suddenly, you're "off track" and it all feels like a failure.
Here’s the truth: The all-or-nothing mindset is what’s keeping you stuck.
What works? Building a sustainable system of habits you can actually stick with—even on a busy Tuesday or a low-energy weekend.


5 Things You Can Start Doing Today

These are simple. They’re doable. And most importantly, they work.
1. Pick Your BAMs (Bare Ass Minimums)
These are the 4 daily non-negotiables I teach in my Phoenix Rising program:
  • 8,000 steps per day
  • Protein goal (aim for 25-30g per meal)
  • Hydration + morning routine (start your day with electrolytes and 30 mins without your phone)
  • 2-3 strength sessions per week

When you hit these, you're moving the needle—even if the scale doesn't budge overnight.

2. Choose 3 Autopilot Breakfasts + 3 Autopilot Lunches
Don’t play macro Tetris every night. Instead, create a simple meal rotation that hits your protein and fiber goals without making you think too hard.
Not sure how? I’ve got a free plug-and-play guide you can download right [here].

3. Lift Something Heavy Twice a Week
Cardio won’t shape your body—strength training will. You don’t need hours in the gym. Just commit to moving your body with resistance a couple times a week. Your metabolism and your future self will thank you.

4. Focus on MORE, Not Less
Instead of obsessing over what to cut, focus on what to add:
  • More protein
  • More movement
  • More whole foods
  • More water
  • More rest
  • More self-respect
That shift alone can change your whole mindset.

5. Track Your Wins (Not Just Your Weight)
You are not a number on a scale. Track your strength. Your energy. Your consistency. Your confidence. Because those are the things that stick when the scale fluctuates.


If You Start Now, You’ll Be So Glad You Did
Imagine where you could be 90 days from now if you stopped overcomplicating the process and just focused on the right things.
You could:
  • Feel proud of your habits
  • Get stronger and more energized
  • Enjoy summer without the crash diet stress
  • Build real momentum that lasts way beyond bikini season
And you don’t have to do it alone.



Something New Is Coming...

I’m getting ready to launch my brand-new Phoenix Rising Group Coaching Community before the end of this month—and it’s built just for women like you:
  • Women who’ve tried it all.
  • Women who are tired of starting over.
  • Women who want guidance, accountability, and a no-BS system that actually works.

Inside, you’ll get everything from expert video lessons, weekly live coaching with me, 90-day challenges with cash prizes, and access to my training app with built-in habit tracking.

More details are coming soon—but if your gut says this could be the thing that finally sticks, stay close.

This summer? We rise. ✨


Ready to simplify your next 90 days? Start with your BAMs today, and watch what happens.
You in?

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Muscle-building workouts: my breakdown

8/3/2024

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By Coach Kayli Montoya-Huston

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I have a bone to pick today, as I'm feeling a bit rant-y.
But mostly, I'm frustrated.
Because I think you're getting tricked and it's time you learn the truth...

See, the workout "truths" you've been fed are things like,
  • "Pilates and yoga will give you toned, lean muscles!"
  • "If you want to look like an athlete you have to train like an athlete!"
  • "You should ditch machines and do free weights to be more functional!"
  • "Kettlebells train stabilizers and all planes of motion, which prepares you for real life!"

And I'm here today to tell you this is all nonsense.

Ok, to be fair, it's not all nonsense - there is some truth in each one.
But it's nonsense to the fact that ~95% of the people reading this newsletter lift weights for aesthetic reasons.

Aka you lift weights to look better.

Sure, you know it's healthy and therapeutic and helps you move better and makes you stronger, yada, yada.

And yes, I get it ⏤ you don't want to look too bulky like a bodybuilder, or get too obsessed with your muscles, or not fit into your favorite outfits.

I understand all of that.

But at the end of the day, you MOSTLY go to the gym to 1) build muscle and 2) lose fat so you feel more confident in your clothes and proud of the body you see in the mirror.

You want to be in-shape. Slim, defined, and muscular in all the right places.
(And hey, me too. No shame here.)

So if you agree that that is your main motive in the gym, then believing the "truths" above will only prevent you from reaching your goals.

And why is that, exactly?

Firstly, muscle and fat tissue can ONLY do three things:
  1. get bigger (gain muscle or gain fat)
  2. get smaller (lose muscle or lose fat)
  3. stay the same

So, knowing this, and knowing that the main outcome we're working out for is to increase our muscle mass and decrease our fat mass, then we should judge our workout's effectiveness solely on how well it does those two things.

And, again, yes we can also workout to improve our cardiovascular fitness, explosive power, core stability, and so on. Or just to have fun!

These are all by-products of muscle building workouts too, they just aren't the primary focus.
You can go to the gym and do whatever feels good for you.

Do the HIIT class, the kettlebells, the battle rope, or Crossfit workouts.

Just don't be upset when your body doesn't look the way you want, even though you're working out hard.

Because remember: our goal in the gym is NOT to sweat the most or get our heart rate up as high as we can or to train for the NFL combine.

Our goal is to gain muscle and lose fat. Period.

Which means we need to do workouts that are built for exactly that.

There's obviously way too much to break down in one blog, but I'll give you my general template.

My muscle-building workout breakdown
  1. Warm up - increase body temp with cardio and dynamic stretching of target muscles
  2. Heavier compound lifts - multi-joint exercises like bench, squat, deadlift, overhead press, etc (all variations)
  3. Accessory lifts - more machines, cables, and stabilized exercise choices for isolating target areas
  4. "Athletic" lift - ONE exercise that is single leg/arm and multiple planes of motion (this prevents injury)
  5. Cardio/Core - this will be either long distance cardio, a HIIT finisher, or an ab workout

To clarify, 2 and 3 are 80% of these workouts.

And the other 20% ⏤ 1, 4, and 5 ⏤ support 2 and 3 to make them more effective via injury prevention and core stability. Or cardio, which supports fat loss.

Notice how everything is hyper-specific to the goal of building muscle or losing fat.

And, of course, the exercise selection, sets, rep ranges, and weekly progressive overload are the other components required to optimize all of this, but this is the skeleton.

Maybe I'll chat on those another day, but I hope this was helpful.

I'm passionate about making this clear because I want you to get results.

And I've had too many clients come to me thinking they've been working out the right way, except they've looked the same for the last two years.

Not because they weren't trying.

But because they were putting their efforts in the wrong place.

So my hope is to help you prevent that.

You only have so much time, energy, and bandwidth to make it to the gym in the first place.
If you're going to be there, I want you to make it count.

Not wasting your time on fluff, false promises, or exercises that simply don't move the needle.
One last thing, if you want to completely take the guesswork out of workout programming check out our ASCEND Training App. This app will help elevate your fitness journey with an all-inclusive collection of personal training programs designed to help rise to new heights.

Thanks for listening to me rant.

If you have any questions, just comment below.
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Thanks,
Kayli


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Body Recomp 101: how to lose fat & gain muscle (at the same time)

3/11/2024

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By: Coach Kayli

In this blog I'm gonna breakdown the basics of losing fat and gaining muscle at the same time, aka
"body recomposition."


Today, I'll teach you what it is, how it's possible, and who it works best for.

I wanna keep this jam packed with high value and minimal fluff, so let's jump right into it.

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To cut or to bulk... why not both?

Fitness experts call body recomp the "holy grail" of getting in-shape because it's the goal everyone is chasing.

Even after reading this, you're probably thinking, "this is what I thought I've always been doing?"

And you likely have, to an extent, but not nearly as optimized as you could.

Which, unfortunately, is probably causing you to "spin your wheels" with progress.

This may sound harsh, but if you look roughly the same or worse as you did ~3-6 months ago, you're spinning your wheels.


It's OK, though! Everyone goes through this period and has to learn the hard way.

You need to be more intentional with your goals, and that's what I'm here for.

If you're more serious/experienced, you are likely either cutting (prioritizing fat loss) or bulking (prioritizing muscle gain), and alternating cycles between each. E.g., cutting for summer, then bulking during winter.

This strategy works, but is outdated for "normal folks" and more suitable for more advanced trainees, like elite level bodybuilders or athletes.

They workout almost daily, and have entire years mapped out with their diet and exercise, periodized down to the week. For them, this is necessary, and they wouldn't respond well to trying to do both at the same time.

If this is you, hey, keep at it!

If not, you're likely in one of two camps:
  1. Consciously bulking or cutting
  2. Thinking you're doing both at the same time, but actually "spinning your wheels"

Both are leaving SO much progress on the table, working harder than necessary for worse results.

Again, don't get down ⏤ I've been there and most other people are in the same boat without realizing.

The good news is that you're now aware of it.

The better news is that you can disrupt old patterns and unlock tons of unrealized gains.

Here's why that's possible if you do it correctly...

Your 2 body composition "bank accounts": muscle tissue and fat tissue

Many people incorrectly assume that "fat can be turned into muscle" or vice versa.

That's not how it works.

Muscle tissue and fat tissue are two separate systems.

So imagine each as a separate bank account. (H/t Jeff Nippard for this.)

We can withdraw money from the fat bank account by using a "smart" calorie deficit, i.e., not too big or too small of a deficit.

While simultaneously depositing money into the muscle building account through intelligent strength training and eating enough protein at the right times.

You can guarantee this outcome more by optimizing things like nutrient timing around workouts, stress management, supplements, and sleep.

To be clear, this is more difficult.

It requires a precise approach built for you and your body, plus weekly consistency and ongoing adjustments.

But it is possible, and the payoff is huge.
(See what I did there?)

Oh, and if you want to review the science to back this up and double check me, see HERE, HERE, and HERE.

Is the body recomposition approach right for you?

There are about four different types of people who will benefit the most from this approach.
  1. New lifters (<1 year): most primed you'll ever be for muscle growth and fat loss.
  2. Overweight/Obese lifters: lots of body fat in reserves, so you can use excess fat stores to fuel muscle growth
  3. Detrained lifters: who have stopped training for 3+ months; can rebound and regain muscle twice as fast
  4. "Sub-optimized" lifters: might've been lifting for years, but working out and eating "incorrectly"

And if you overlap between two or more of those, that means you're an excellent candidate for this.

Two additional types of people who I've successfully coached using these methods are people who would identify as "skinny fat" or people who have hit a plateau and can't seem to bust past it no matter what they try.

If any of these feel like you, body recomp is definitely worth trying out.

Ok, I'm going to cut it here.

Now you know what body recomposition is, how it's possible, and who it's for.

Join us Here in our private FB community to catch the key components of a successful recomp.

You won't want to miss it. Talk to you then.
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-Kayli
P.S. Any questions? Just comment below.
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