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How to Finally Make Fat Loss Simple, Sustainable, and Actually Stick

5/3/2025

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Coach Kayli

NASM Certified Personal Trainer and NCI Certified Nutrition Coach specializing in women’s health, fat loss, and mindset transformation.

Summer is almost here—and if you’re like most women I coach, you’re probably feeling a little pressure to "get it together" before the season hits full swing. Maybe you’ve tried to start over more times than you can count. You’ve done the crazy cardio routines, skipped meals, cut carbs, and downloaded another free challenge hoping this time it will stick.
But let me tell you something powerful:

It’s not too late. You don’t need to be perfect. And you definitely don’t need to punish your body to feel confident this summer.
The next 90 days can look and feel completely different—not because you finally found the "magic fix," but because you focused on what actually works.
Let’s break it down.

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Why Most Fat Loss Plans Don’t Work (And What to Do Instead)

The biggest mistake I see women make this time of year?
They go all in.
  • 5-6 workouts a week
  • Barely eating
  • Hoping for the scale to drop fast

    And then life happens. A busy week. A skipped workout. A weekend of pizza and wine. Suddenly, you're "off track" and it all feels like a failure.
Here’s the truth: The all-or-nothing mindset is what’s keeping you stuck.
What works? Building a sustainable system of habits you can actually stick with—even on a busy Tuesday or a low-energy weekend.


5 Things You Can Start Doing Today

These are simple. They’re doable. And most importantly, they work.
1. Pick Your BAMs (Bare Ass Minimums)
These are the 4 daily non-negotiables I teach in my Phoenix Rising program:
  • 8,000 steps per day
  • Protein goal (aim for 25-30g per meal)
  • Hydration + morning routine (start your day with electrolytes and 30 mins without your phone)
  • 2-3 strength sessions per week

When you hit these, you're moving the needle—even if the scale doesn't budge overnight.

2. Choose 3 Autopilot Breakfasts + 3 Autopilot Lunches
Don’t play macro Tetris every night. Instead, create a simple meal rotation that hits your protein and fiber goals without making you think too hard.
Not sure how? I’ve got a free plug-and-play guide you can download right [here].

3. Lift Something Heavy Twice a Week
Cardio won’t shape your body—strength training will. You don’t need hours in the gym. Just commit to moving your body with resistance a couple times a week. Your metabolism and your future self will thank you.

4. Focus on MORE, Not Less
Instead of obsessing over what to cut, focus on what to add:
  • More protein
  • More movement
  • More whole foods
  • More water
  • More rest
  • More self-respect
That shift alone can change your whole mindset.

5. Track Your Wins (Not Just Your Weight)
You are not a number on a scale. Track your strength. Your energy. Your consistency. Your confidence. Because those are the things that stick when the scale fluctuates.


If You Start Now, You’ll Be So Glad You Did
Imagine where you could be 90 days from now if you stopped overcomplicating the process and just focused on the right things.
You could:
  • Feel proud of your habits
  • Get stronger and more energized
  • Enjoy summer without the crash diet stress
  • Build real momentum that lasts way beyond bikini season
And you don’t have to do it alone.



Something New Is Coming...

I’m getting ready to launch my brand-new Phoenix Rising Group Coaching Community before the end of this month—and it’s built just for women like you:
  • Women who’ve tried it all.
  • Women who are tired of starting over.
  • Women who want guidance, accountability, and a no-BS system that actually works.

Inside, you’ll get everything from expert video lessons, weekly live coaching with me, 90-day challenges with cash prizes, and access to my training app with built-in habit tracking.

More details are coming soon—but if your gut says this could be the thing that finally sticks, stay close.

This summer? We rise. ✨


Ready to simplify your next 90 days? Start with your BAMs today, and watch what happens.
You in?

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How to Lose Weight in Your 40s Without Destroying Your Metabolism

3/15/2025

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By Coach Kayli

Losing weight in your 40s feels different than it did in your 20s and 30s—because it is! Many women notice that the strategies they once relied on (eating less, doing more cardio, skipping meals) no longer work. In fact, they often backfire, leading to stalled progress, low energy, and frustration.

The good news? Weight loss in your 40s is absolutely possible—you just need the right approach that supports your metabolism rather than wrecking it. Here’s how you can lose fat, build strength, and feel amazing without extreme dieting.
Why Losing Weight Feels Harder After 40Many women believe that weight gain in their 40s is just an unavoidable part of aging, but that’s not entirely true.

​The real reasons fat loss feels harder include:

✅ Hormonal Changes: Estrogen and progesterone start to fluctuate, affecting how your body stores fat—often leading to more accumulation around the midsection.
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Muscle Loss: If you aren’t actively working to maintain or build muscle, your body naturally loses it over time, slowing your metabolism.
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Higher Stress Levels: Busy careers, family responsibilities, and less time for self-care lead to higher cortisol levels, which can contribute to fat storage.
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Slower Recovery: Your body doesn’t bounce back as quickly, making excessive exercise and undereating even more harmful.

So what’s the solution? Instead of chasing quick fixes, you need a sustainable, metabolism-friendly approach.

5 Steps to Losing Weight Without Damaging Your Metabolism

1. Prioritize Protein for Fat Loss and Muscle Retention. Protein is non-negotiable if you want to lose fat without losing muscle. It helps keep you full, supports muscle maintenance, and even has a thermic effect—meaning your body burns more calories digesting it.

💡 Goal: Aim for 0.7-1g of protein per pound of body weight daily.
🔹 Simple ways to hit your protein target:
  • Start every meal with a protein source (chicken, fish, lean beef, eggs, Greek yogurt, cottage cheese).
  • Keep high-protein snacks on hand (protein shakes, boiled eggs, turkey roll-ups, jerky).
  • Don’t fear protein powders—they’re a convenient way to boost intake!

2. Strength Train to Keep Your Metabolism High

If you’re relying solely on cardio to lose weight, you’re missing a key piece of the puzzle. Strength training helps you build and preserve muscle, which keeps your metabolism fast and prevents that dreaded “skinny fat” look.

💡 Goal: Train 3-4x per week, focusing on compound movements like squats, deadlifts, hip thrusts, bench presses, and pull-ups.

🔹 Strength training benefits:
  • Increases metabolism, so you burn more calories even at rest.
  • Improves bone density and joint health.
  • Helps reshape your body so you look lean rather than just “smaller.”

3. Stop Starving Yourself—Eat ENOUGH for Fat Loss

One of the biggest mistakes women make in their 40s is eating too little.

Severely cutting calories might lead to weight loss at first, but it also causes muscle loss, slows your metabolism, and increases cravings, making long-term fat loss nearly impossible.

💡 Solution: Instead of eating as little as possible, focus on eating enough to fuel your workouts and recovery. A reasonable calorie deficit (200-500 calories below maintenance) is plenty to see steady fat loss.
🔹 How to know if you’re eating too little:
  • You feel constantly fatigued and irritable.
  • You’ve hit a weight loss plateau despite eating less.
  • You experience intense cravings or binge episodes.

4. Balance Your Cardio—Don’t Overdo It

Cardio is great for heart health, but excessive cardio can increase stress hormones, break down muscle, and slow your metabolism.

💡 Goal: Instead of spending hours on the treadmill, aim for 2-3 days of cardio per week and make it intentional—think brisk walks, incline treadmill work, or short HIIT sessions.

🔹 Best cardio options for fat loss:
  • Daily walks (at least 8,000 steps per day)
  • 20-30 minutes of incline walking or cycling
  • 1-2 short HIIT sessions per week (optional)

5. Manage Stress & Prioritize SleepCortisol (your stress hormone) plays a huge role in fat loss, especially around the midsection. High stress combined with poor sleep can increase cravings, slow metabolism, and make weight loss feel impossible.

💡 Solution: Create habits that reduce stress and improve recovery.
🔹 Simple stress-reducing habits:
  • Get 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night.
  • Set boundaries with work and personal responsibilities.
  • Take 5-10 minutes a day for deep breathing, meditation, or journaling.
  • Prioritize hobbies and time outdoors to relax your nervous system.

The Bottom Line: You CAN Lose Fat at 40+ Without Wrecking Your Metabolism

If your goal is to lose weight in your 40s and beyond, the old ways of dieting and endless cardio won’t cut it. Instead, focus on building muscle, eating enough protein, and managing stress.

By following these steps, you won’t just lose weight—you’ll feel stronger, have more energy, and create a body that looks and feels incredible for years to come.

🚀 Ready to lose fat and get strong without the diet rollercoaster? Stay tuned—I have something coming soon that will help you get there! 💪🔥


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How to Speed Up Your Metabolism: Debunking Myths and Simple Steps to See Results in 2025

1/4/2025

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As the New Year kicks off, many of us are setting health and fitness goals. For those looking to lose weight or build muscle, one question often comes up: "How can I speed up my metabolism?" While the idea of revving up your metabolism sounds great, it’s essential to separate fact from fiction and focus on strategies that truly work.
In this blog post, we’ll bust common myths about metabolism and provide actionable steps to help you support your metabolism for lasting results.


What Is Metabolism? Your metabolism is the process your body uses to convert food into energy. It’s not a single organ or system but a series of chemical reactions that keep you alive and functioning. The speed of your metabolism—your metabolic rate—is influenced by several factors, including:
  • Age: Metabolism naturally slows as you get older. But not as much as think!
  • Body Composition: Muscle burns more calories than fat at rest.
  • Hormones: Thyroid function, insulin levels, and other hormones play a significant role.
  • Activity Level: Movement and exercise directly affect how many calories you burn.



Myth-Busting: What Won’t Speed Up Your Metabolism!

Before diving into what works, let’s dispel some common misconceptions:
  • Skipping Meals: Many believe eating less drastically will speed up fat loss, but this often leads to the opposite effect, slowing your metabolism and causing muscle loss.
  • Eating "Metabolism-Boosting Foods": While green tea, spicy foods, and apple cider vinegar have small effects, they won’t make a significant difference alone.
  • Excessive Cardio: Overdoing cardio can lead to muscle loss, which slows your resting metabolic rate over time.



5 Proven Ways to Support Your Metabolism

1. Build and Maintain Muscle: 
Resistance training is one of the most effective ways to increase your resting metabolic rate. Muscle tissue requires more energy to maintain than fat, meaning you burn more calories even when at rest. Aim for at least 2-3 strength training sessions per week.
Action Step: Start incorporating compound movements like squats, deadlifts, and bench presses to build muscle.

2. Prioritize Protein in Every Meal: 
Protein has the highest thermic effect of food (TEF), meaning your body burns more calories digesting protein compared to carbs or fat. Protein also helps preserve muscle mass during weight loss.
Action Step: Include a source of protein (e.g., chicken, fish, tofu, eggs, or Greek yogurt) with every meal and snack.

3. Stay Consistently Active: 
While exercise is essential, non-exercise activity thermogenesis (NEAT) also plays a huge role in calorie burn. This includes all the movement you do outside of workouts, such as walking, cleaning, or even fidgeting.
Action Step: Set a daily step goal, such as 8,000-10,000 steps, to increase your overall activity level.

4. Don’t Skimp on Sleep: 
Poor sleep disrupts hormones that regulate hunger and metabolism, such as leptin and ghrelin. Chronic sleep deprivation can make weight management more challenging.
Action Step: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night and establish a consistent sleep schedule.

5. Fuel Your Body Consistently: 
Under-eating can cause your metabolism to slow down over time as your body tries to conserve energy. Ensure you’re eating enough calories to support your activity level and goals.
Action Step: Work with a coach or use a calorie-tracking app to determine the right caloric intake for you.



Kickstart Your 2025 Metabolism Goals

The start of a new year is the perfect time to take control of your health and set yourself up for success. By focusing on building muscle, eating enough protein, staying active, prioritizing sleep, and fueling your body properly, you can create a lifestyle that supports a healthy metabolism—no gimmicks needed.

If you’re ready to start the year strong and want expert guidance, let me help you achieve your goals! I specialize in helping women in their 30s-50s regain confidence, build strength, and simplify fat loss with sustainable methods.

 Let’s work together to make 2025 your healthiest year yet. Click below to learn more about my personalized coaching programs!


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Why You're Hungry (And How To Fix It)

11/2/2024

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By Coach Kayli

How to Feel Full and Satisfied From Your Meals

We’ve all been there—trying to follow an eating plan perfectly, only to still feel hungry which leads to overeating. Feeling full and satisfied from your meals is crucial for weight management, as it helps prevent overeating and reduces the temptation to snack on unhealthy foods. But how can you achieve that sense of satisfaction without overindulging?
This blog article explores:

  • How to recognize true fullness to avoid overeating.
  • Practical nutrition tips to feel satisfied from your meals and fuller for longer.
  • How to establish eating habits that support your goals.


Recognizing true fullnessMany of us have trouble recognizing when we’re truly full, often continuing to eat past the point of satisfaction. Understanding what feeling full actually means can be surprisingly tricky, as many of us have lost touch with our body’s natural satiety signals due to stress, busy schedules, or ingrained eating habits.

True fullness should feel like a comfortable satisfaction, where hunger is gone, and you feel energized without being overly full or bloated. However, many people struggle to feel this way after their meals and are never truly satisfied. Achieving a sense of fullness and satisfaction involves two main factors: nutrition and eating habits.



Nutrition and fullnessEver wonder why some big meals leave you feeling satisfied and energized while others leave you still hungry or sluggish? Feeling full and satisfied from your meals is not just about how much you eat, but also the quality and nutrition of your food. Here are our top tips to feel full and satisfied from your meals.


Focus on protein
Protein is powerful when it comes to managing hunger levels. It promotes satiety by releasing hormones that signal to your brain that you are full and satisfied. High-protein foods like lean meats, fish, eggs, beans, lentils, and Greek yogurt are particularly effective at keeping you feeling full longer. Including a source of protein in every meal and snack helps maintain a sense of fullness throughout the day, preventing overeating and supporting balanced energy levels.


Balance your macros
Eating a mix of protein, fats, and carbohydrates in each meal is key to feeling full and satisfied. Each of these macronutrients plays a unique role in promoting satiety and sustaining energy levels. For example, if you have just a plain bagel for breakfast, you might feel hungry again soon. But if you choose whole-grain toast topped with avocado, a scrambled egg, and a side of berries, you’re getting a balance of protein, fiber, and healthy fats. This balanced meal will keep you feeling fuller and more energized for longer.


Choose whole foods
Opting for whole, unprocessed foods can make a big difference in how full and satisfied you feel. Whole foods, like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins, are rich in essential nutrients and fiber that promote satiety and help you feel fuller for longer. On the other hand, processed foods, such as chips, cookies, and sugary snacks, are often engineered to be hyper-palatable, making them hard to stop eating. These foods are typically high in empty calories and low in nutrients, leading to overeating without ever feeling truly satisfied.


Eating habits and fullnessYou might be wondering how your eating habits could impact your fullness and satisfaction from your meals. On top of what you eat, how and when you eat can also significantly impact your sense of satiety. Let’s explore how small changes can make a big difference.


Mindful eating
Mindful eating can greatly impact how full and satisfied you feel after a meal. By eating slowly, you give your body the necessary time to recognize fullness signals, helping prevent overeating. Thoroughly chewing your food aids digestion and enhances the feeling of fullness, making your meal more satisfying. Additionally, avoiding distractions like TV or smartphones allows you to focus on your meal, making it easier to recognize when you’re truly satisfied.


Meal timing and frequency
How often you eat plays a crucial role in how full and satisfied you feel throughout the day. Eating regular meals helps prevent extreme hunger, which can lead to overeating when you finally sit down to eat. Incorporating healthy snacks between meals can also maintain your energy levels and keep hunger at bay, ensuring you don’t overindulge during main meals.

Summary

Learning to recognize true fullness is the first step. Slow down and pay attention during your meals without distractions. 

Top Nutrition tips for fullness include:
  • Focusing on Protein
  • Balancing Macros
  • Eating Whole Foods (most of the time)

Eating Habits to focus on:
  • Mindful Eating
  • Meal Timing & Frequency

As always I hope this was helpful. Now it’s time to take action and start implementing these steps if you're ready to transform your body & life! 

And if you want further guidance, take our Free Metabolism Quiz, to see if yours may be holding you back from your goals! 

Metabolic Quiz
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Why You Can't Lose Weight: Your Under Muscled

4/6/2024

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Welcome, ladies! Today, we're diving deep into a common obstacle many women face on their weight loss journey: being under muscled. You might be diligent with your diet, logging hours on the treadmill, yet still struggle to shed those stubborn pounds. Here's the scoop: it's time to shift our focus from just losing weight to building muscle. Let's explore why your muscle mass matters and how it impacts your weight loss goals.

Understanding the Problem:
So, what exactly does it mean to be "under muscled"? In simple terms, it's having inadequate muscle mass relative to your body composition. As we age, especially between the ages of 30-50, our muscle mass naturally declines due to factors like hormonal changes, decreased activity levels, and even dietary habits. This decline in muscle mass not only affects our strength and mobility but also plays a crucial role in our ability to lose weight effectively.

The Muscle-Fat Connection:
Here's the kicker: muscle is a metabolically active tissue, meaning it burns calories even at rest. The more muscle mass you have, the higher your basal metabolic rate (BMR), which translates to more calories burned throughout the day. On the flip side, excess fat tissue does little in terms of calorie expenditure. So, if you're carrying more fat than muscle, your body becomes less efficient at burning calories, making weight loss an uphill battle.

The Benefits of Building Muscle:

1. Increased Metabolism: By building muscle through resistance training, you can rev up your metabolism, making it easier to create the calorie deficit necessary for weight loss.
2. Improved Body Composition: Building muscle while losing fat leads to a leaner, more toned physique, rather than simply becoming smaller in size.
3. Enhanced Strength and Functionality: Strong muscles not only support you during workouts but also in daily activities, promoting better posture, balance, and overall vitality.

How to Build Muscle and Lose Weight:

1. Strength Training: Incorporate resistance training exercises into your routine at least 2-3 times per week. Focus on compound movements like squats, deadlifts, lunges, and rows to target multiple muscle groups simultaneously.
2. Progressive Overload: Continuously challenge your muscles by gradually increasing the weight, reps, or intensity of your workouts over time. This stimulates muscle growth and prevents plateaus.
3. Balanced Nutrition: Ensure you're consuming enough protein to support muscle repair and growth, while also maintaining a slight calorie deficit to facilitate fat loss. Opt for nutrient-dense foods like lean meats, fish, eggs, legumes, and plenty of fruits and vegetables.
4. Rest and Recovery: Don't overlook the importance of rest days and quality sleep. Muscles need time to repair and grow, so prioritize recovery to avoid burnout and injury.

Conclusion:

Ladies, if you've been struggling to lose weight despite your best efforts, it's time to shift your focus to building muscle. Remember, it's not just about the number on the scale, but rather achieving a healthy balance of muscle and fat for long-term success. By incorporating strength training into your routine and prioritizing muscle growth, you'll not only transform your physique but also supercharge your metabolism and reclaim your confidence. Here's to becoming strong, empowered women who can conquer any challenge that comes our way!

So, are you ready to say goodbye to being under muscled and hello to a stronger, leaner you? Let's do this together!

Coach Kayli


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Top 10 Reasons You Can't Lose Body Fat: Unveiling the Roadblocks to Your Fitness Goals

2/3/2024

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Blog Post By Kayli Montoya-Huston

NASM Certified Personal Trainer & NCI Certified Nutrition Coach L1 and Mindset Coach
Specializing in Gut Health & Woman's Health 

Embarking on a weight loss journey can be challenging, especially when you're committed to shedding those stubborn pounds but see minimal results. If you're wondering why your body fat isn't budging, you're not alone. In this blog post, we'll explore the top 10 reasons that might be hindering your fat loss progress and provide practical solutions to overcome these obstacles.
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Inadequate Caloric Deficit:
  • Achieving a caloric deficit is crucial for weight loss, but it's equally important not to overdo it. Fad diets like Keto, Vegan, Carnivor, etc.,  may lead to nutrient deficiencies and a slower metabolism. Focus on a moderate caloric deficit and a balanced diet to ensure sustained fat loss.
Lack of Consistency in Workouts:
  • Inconsistent workout routines can impede your progress. Your body needs regular physical activity to burn calories and boost metabolism. Incorporate a mix of strength training and cardio exercises, and stay consistent with your workout schedule.
High Stress Levels:
  • Chronic stress triggers the release of cortisol, a hormone that promotes fat storage, particularly around the abdominal area. Implement stress-management techniques such meditation, deep breathing, or yoga to keep cortisol levels in check.
Poor Sleep Quality:
  • Inadequate sleep disrupts hormonal balance, affecting hunger hormones like ghrelin and leptin. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night to support fat loss and overall well-being.
Undereating or Overeating:
  • Both extremes can hinder your progress. Undereating slows down metabolism, while overeating leads to excess calorie intake. Find a balance by eating nutrient-dense foods in appropriate portions.
Lack of Protein in Diet:
  • Protein is essential for muscle preservation and metabolism. Ensure your diet includes an adequate amount of lean protein sources such as poultry, fish, beans, and tofu to support fat loss. A good target to aim for is .7-1g per pound of your target goal weight. Example: If you want to be 150lbs aim for 120-150g of protein daily.  
Inefficient Hydration:
  • Dehydration can be mistaken for hunger, leading to unnecessary calorie consumption. Stay adequately hydrated throughout the day to support metabolism and curb unnecessary snacking.
Sedentary Lifestyle:
  • Sitting for extended periods slows down metabolism. Incorporate movement into your daily routine, such as taking short walks, using a standing desk, or doing quick workouts during breaks.
Medical Conditions:
  • Certain medical conditions, like hypothyroidism or insulin resistance, can hinder weight loss. Consult with a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying issues and tailor your approach accordingly.
Ineffective Goal Setting:
  • Unrealistic goals or a lack of specific targets can demotivate you. Set achievable, measurable goals and celebrate your progress along the way to stay motivated on your fat loss journey. 

Conclusion:
Identifying and addressing these roadblocks can pave the way for successful fat loss. Remember, patience and consistency are key. Consult with a qualified nutrition coach or personal trainer to personalize your approach and maximize your results. Your fitness journey is unique, and understanding these reasons can help you overcome obstacles and achieve your body fat loss goals.

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10 no-nonsense strategies to help you lose fat more easily this year.

1/15/2024

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Welcome to 2024!
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 As we dive into the new year, let's focus on what really matters for fat-loss. I'm not about quick fixes or fads. It's all about practical steps you can actually stick to. This is my 9th January working in fitness, and I'm often inspired and rejuvenated by the new year too. Many people bash "resolutions," making it feel vulnerable to admit having big health goals for the new year. But you aren't alone. There are plenty of others watching this who want to improve how they look, move, and feel.

The number one thing I hear from people at the beginning of each new year is their desire to lose weight, closely followed by wishes to eat "better" and "exercise more."
Let’s tackle two out of these three: losing weight and eating better. These are the two things (besides maybe better sleep) that will help you feel better.

So here is Tip #1 of the 10 no-nonsense strategies to help you lose fat more easily this year.
  1. Go Slow, Be Patient: Losing 1 pound 50 times is more realistic than dropping 50 pounds at once. Patience is key. Weight loss really does take time, and it's rarely linear. Meaning there will almost always be periods on your weight-loss journey where your weight might not be going down (in fact, it might even be going up, yikes). But, as the saying goes, "knowing is half the battle". If you know that losing weight takes time, if you know that rates of 1-2 pounds/week tend to be more sustainable, and if you trust the process you will get there.

    1 pound/week is 52 pounds in a year.
    2 pound(s)/week is 104 pounds in a year.

    Don't freak out when you see your weight bump up *one* day.
 
  1. Stay Hydrated: This is one of the ones that will help in the looking and feeling better department. Few things will have your hair, skin, and nails looking better than drinking more water. Additionally, water will no doubt keep you fuller and result in you eating fuller calories (the key to weight loss).

    Which is why, in a part of the year that's all about habit formation, I beg that you consider just drinking some more water.

    This is without a doubt the easiest of all the things I've put on this list today, and it will help you look, move, and feel better - while making fat-loss easier.

    I aim for around 75oz of water/day. You can push that as high as a gallon/day. But a good rule of thumb is around half your bodyweight (in pounds) in oz. of water.
 
  1. Protein is Your Friend: Build your meals around PROTEIN.

    If you follow me on social media, or subscribe to my podcast, then you know how I feel about protein.

    Of the three macronutrients (protein, carbs, and fats) protein has the greatest impact on:

    - body composition
    - muscle mass
    - fat loss

    Protein keeps you full, fuels muscle growth, and promotes changes in body composition. To take advantage of the "power of protein" do this:

    - aim for 0.6-1.0 grams of protein per pound of bodyweight in grams of protein/day. If you are heavier, you can use your "goal weight" instead of your bodyweight.

    - spread that out across the day. I'm talking 4,5,6 protein "feedings"/day.

    - lots of protein rich snacks.
 
  1. Fiber and Veggies: Every meal should have them. Think fruits, veggies, whole grains. A list of my favorite sources of fiber, fruit, greens, etc.

    - apples
    - berries
    - carrots
    - beans
    - whole wheat bread
    - rice
    - oats
    - spinach
    - green beans
    - peas

    Don't make this a bigger deal than it needs to be. Your mother was absolutely correct in her assertion that you need your veggies to grow up healthy and strong.
 
  1. Rethink Snacking and Beware "Caloric Leak": Out with ultra-processed, hyper-palatable options. In with high-protein, high-fiber choices.

    Snack on more things like yogurt, cottage cheese, protein shakes, protein bars, carrots, apples, grapes, berries, cheese, etc.

    Snack way less on things like chips, cookies, candies, pastries.

    And CUT the liquid calories. This is a HUGE HUGE driver of what I call "caloric leak".

    Huge sources of caloric leak: condiments, creamers, anything you "graze", bite, lick, taste, or sip, coffees, lattes, alcohol, dips, aioli, etc.
 
  1. Audit Your Kitchen: What's in your fridge and pantry matters more than you think.

    Load those two things up with things you regularly snack on and use for meals.

    As for the freezer, I'm a huge fan of keeping frozen proteins, fruits, and vegetables to quickly build meals and prepare ahead.

    What's in your fridge, pantry, and freezer, tends to end up in your belly. Well, except the bag salad you buy every week only to throw out after it expires.

    So take a few hours and overhaul what you have access to at home (to the best of your current abilities of course).
 
  1. Move More: Less sitting, more stepping. It's about movement, not just calories burned. Nothing makes fat-loss harder than being categorically sedentary.

    Besides being a small, sedentary woman. Then it's really hard.

    The smaller your body mass, and the less you move, the harder fat-loss is.

    The larger your body mass, and the more you move, the easier fat-loss is.

    There's nothing magic about getting 10,000 steps/day. But that's all time not spent eating, spent moving, spent outside (often), and all that matters for fat-loss much more than the calories you actually burn moving.

    Aim for 10,000 steps/day.
 
  1. Don't Underestimate Sleep: It's crucial for mood, willpower, and appetite control. Good sleep aids in fat-loss and muscle retention.

    It also helps you feel much better and recover from hard workouts.

    This is harder for people and families with kids, shift workers, and other populations, but if you can make the time for a little more sleep, fat-loss and eating better become much easier.

    One of the big reasons being that time spent sleeping isn't time spent eating.
 
  1. Keep It Simple: Avoid crazy diets and extreme rules. If it's not sustainable for a month, it's not sustainable at all.

    All your fat-loss and food behavior change efforts need to have staying power to work. Because changing your body is a slow process. So a diet you can only do for 2-3 weeks isn't going to cut it unless you only want to lose 8-10 pounds. And even then... kinda sketchy.
 
  1. Consider Cutting Alcohol: It's often a primary culprit in weight gain. Plus, it disrupts sleep and recovery. So if you can cut it, and try a "dry January" I would do it.

    Nothing is going to change the way you "feel" more quickly than giving up the booze for a bit if you like to indulge.

    You might try the same with something else you enjoy that isn't serving your health, maybe it's coffee in the morning, smoking, toxic behavior, who knows. It's the new year, which means it's a great time to take inventory of what isn't serving you, and leave it behind (if you can) in the new year.


That's what I have for you today. But I'll keep dropping by with little blurbs as the year goes on. I want to help make 2024 your fittest year yet.

Stay strong, Coach Kayli!


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Here are 3 mistakes every woman over 40 needs to avoid

11/6/2023

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Here are 3 mistakes every woman over 40 needs to avoid.

Technically, these are 3 mistakes everyone who wants to improve their body composition and get leaner needs to avoid.

But women are more sensitive to stress so they can't get away with as much.

It's not fair but it does make sense from an evolutionary standpoint. Women are more important to the survival of our species than men. Ya know, the whole baby carrying thing.

Anyway, in no particular order...

Mistake #1. Fasting or "skipping breakfast" - let's first put to bed the myth that fasting is superior for fat loss. It's not. Fasting isn't even a nutrition protocol. You can fast and do keto, you can fast and track macros, you can fast and eat 10,000 calories per day.

The fasting cult followers say that if you condense the feeding window, you're more likely to eat less because there's less time to eat. Certain things sound good in theory but don't hold up to real life application.

Fasting is one of them. Studies show that people who fast tend to eat a lot more later in the day and it's easier for them to over indulge. They also report higher hunger and cravings. And there are certain metabolic disadvantages that can occur due to fasting.

This is especially true in women over 40 who are more sensitive to stress. Cortisol is highest in the morning and fasting is a stress on the body (lack of energy coming in). During the season of life when hormonal changes are happening, it's not the time to disrupt things even further.

My recommendation: wake up and eat within an hour of getting out of bed. Make it a high protein breakfast and a well balanced meal (with some carbs and fats) to reduce cortisol and keep blood sugar stable.

Mistake #2. HIIT / Group Classes / Cardio - this is a dose dependent thing but based on experience in working with hundreds of women over the past decade, a lot of individuals overdo it when it comes to this style of exercise.

I'm talking about OrangeTheory, F45, bootcamps, HIIT, cardio, etc. Anything where the main goal of the workout is basically a manual "calorie burn" and you often feel rewarded with a pool of sweat on the floor.

Now, before you stop doing all forms of cardio, there's absolutely a time and place. Improving your cardio capacity is great for overall health. Sweating is a wonderful thing.

However, it's easy to get hooked on the feeling. Or high on believing. Wait, where was I? Oh right.. too much cardio.

This style of exercise is not exactly great for your metabolism or hormone health. It's a stressor like any form of exercise (increases cortisol) but it doesn't come with a metabolic advantage like lifting weights does. Because you're getting more efficient with calories each time you do that same workout or form of cardio.

That means the calorie burn gets less and less. Not only that, but studies show that HIIT and cardio can drive hunger and cravings up and our bodies also subconsciously move less throughout the day to compensate for the calorie burn that occurred during the workout.

My recommendation: this style of training is not great for body composition improvements. If you want to get leaner, do some form of resistance training as the foundation of your workouts. Use cardio in smaller doses and be sure to pay attention to recovery, hunger, and cravings. Notice how you're impacted when you work out like that.

If you're training to get better at cardio (like running a marathon or ironman etc) then you'll obviously need a much higher level of frequency. In that case, you better be prepared to fuel appropriately to counter balance the amount of stress you're putting on your body.

Mistake #3. Dieting too frequently / too extremely / unsustainably - once again, this is a problem across the board but when you're more sensitive to stress, it becomes an even bigger issue.

Dieting is a major stressor on the body. Consider that your results, your metabolic health, and your hormone health are all dependent on having the appropriate resources to meet the demands you place on your body.

Food / energy is an important resource. Recovery is a resource. Sleep is a resource. Self-care is a resource.

Dieting impacts all of the above. You're removing energy, impairing recovery, making it more difficult to get adequate sleep, and potentially sacrificing self-care.

A lot of women get frustrated when they're told to basically starve themselves and then don't see progress. Why don't they see progress? Because the diet is too extreme and your body fights to preserve energy.

Think about it like this.. do you really want a fast and effective metabolism when very little energy is coming in? Of course you don't. You'd starve to death quicker.

So your body adapts by down regulating metabolic function, suppressing certain systems in the body like immune function, sexual function, etc.

The more frequently you diet, the more stress you place on your body. The more extreme your diet is, the more of a stressor it is. The more you try to be perfect, the more unsustainable the results are.

My recommendation: diet smarter, not harder. Have a dedicated fat loss phase that lasts about 12-16 weeks (the timeline will be highly dependent on the individual). Keep it very moderate and if you're going to be more aggressive, you better damn well have recovery and stress management on lock.

Eat mostly high quality foods and incorporate things you love in moderation each day (or at least each week). Avoid the half in, half out approach where you kinda sorta diet but then indulge and want to keep dieting forever.

Unfortunately, these 3 mistakes are insanely common.

In fact, they're often all done at once.

Almost daily I speak to women who are trying to fast, eat 1200 calories, and are doing a whole bunch of cardio or HIIT.

When you reach that season of life when hormones are changing and sensitivity to stress is higher, it's important to focus on some foundational habits that go a long way in your overall health and body composition.

Food quality should really be a primary focus. It's incredibly important for hormone health.

Walking is like the gift that keeps on giving. Do it frequently.

Protein is your best friend. Eat lots of it.

Muscle is your metabolic gold. Preserve it. Build it.

Sleep and stress management are non negotiables. If anyone gets in the way of your sleep and self-care, you have permission to Will Smith them (is that still a reference? Probably not. But I'm using it anyway).

Above all else, prioritize yourself. I just spoke to someone this morning who said that she's spent 45 years of her life putting everyone else first. She said that she's always made financial decisions based on everyone else. Rarely ever herself.

Finally, it clicked. She said, enough is enough. I'm worth it and I deserve to be happy and healthy. The most impactful thing she said in our conversation was...

"It doesn't do anyone much good if I lack confidence in myself and feel miserable in my own body. I deserve to feel good and look good."

Without a doubt. You don't have to put your own goals on hold for the sake of everyone else. Not only do you deserve to look and feel how you want but the people you care about the most deserve the best version of you.

And that requires prioritizing yourself. Investing in yourself. And spending your time accordingly.

If you don't know where to start, simply ask. I can always point you in the right direction.

Much love, Kayli

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8 Simple Ways to Speed Up Your Metabolism

6/10/2023

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 What exactly is your Metabolism & what does it do for you? 

Imagine your body is like a machine that needs fuel to run, just like a car needs gasoline. Metabolism is like the engine of that machine. It's the process in your body that turns the food you eat into energy that your body can use.


You see, every time you eat something, your body breaks down the food into smaller pieces called nutrients. These nutrients include things like carbohydrates, proteins, and fats. Your body uses these nutrients to do different things, like helping your muscles move, your brain think, and even your heart beat.

Now, think of your metabolism as the way your body converts these nutrients into energy. It's like a factory inside you that takes in the nutrients and turns them into the energy your body needs to function. This energy helps you do everything from running and playing to growing and even sleeping!

The metabolism is always working, even when you're sleeping or sitting still. It's a busy process that happens in every cell of your body. Some people have faster metabolisms, which means their bodies convert food into energy more quickly. Others have slower metabolisms, so their bodies convert food into energy more slowly.

Different things can affect your metabolism too. For example, when you exercise, your metabolism speeds up because your body needs more energy. That's why it's important to eat healthy food and stay active, so your metabolism can work efficiently and keep you feeling good.

So, in simple terms, metabolism is like the engine that converts the food you eat into energy for your body. It's what keeps you going and helps you grow strong and healthy!

8 Simple Ways to Speed Up Your Metabolism:

Your metabolism doesn’t slow down due to age until your reach your 60s

If it does slow down it’s due to a significant change in your lifestyle.

The most common reason being you lost muscle & your actions led to a slower metabolism. 

     1. Stop crash dieting.
  • Dieting too aggressively increases stress on your body which can trigger adaptive responses that slow down calorie burning during exercise & rest
  • Over time, you end up down-regulating thyroid + insulin sensitivity = slowing down your ability for fat loss.

  • 2. Build Lean Muscle.
  • Simply adding 7 pounds of muscle to your body can approximately increase your BMR(the calories your body burns at rest) by 53 calories per day.
  • Doesn’t sound like much? 
  • 53 calories x365days = 19,345 calories.
  • In 1 year you’ll burn the equivalent of 5.5 pounds of fat just from having more muscle. 

    3. Get in 8-10k steps/day
  • The average American gets less than 4k steps on average. This isn’t enough. 
  • If you can get 8-10k steps/day you’ll burn 300-400 calories/day just by walking.
  • You’ll improve your mood, lose fat, support a healthy metabolism, & live longer as well.

    4. Sleep at least 7 hours per night.
  • Any improvement in sleep quality & duration will make a big impact.
  • Poor Sleep…
          - Alters glucose metabolism(you can’t handle carbs)
          - Increases appetite + cravings
          - Decreases energy expenditure
      5. Drink ½ your BW in oz of water per day.
  • You’re probably dehydrated. This makes you tired, hungry, dumber, and more prone to injuries.
  • Studies have shown drinking 17 oz of water can increase metabolic rate by 30% and regulate your appetite. 

    6. Eat 1g of Protein per 1lb of bodyweight.
  • High protein diets support muscle growth, improving metabolic health.
  • 30% of the calories you eat from protein are burned off during digestion, you burn more calories each day.
  • Protein is the most satiating macro. You’ll eat less junk.

    7. Sit Less, Move More
  • Get up and move as often as you can-even if you lift but sit behind a desk all day, you are at risk of metabolic & cardiovascular issues from prolonged sitting.
  • Fat loss enzyme(lipase) slows down with inactivity. 
  • Cognitive + metabolic function plummet. 

    8. Simplify & Execute. **MOST IMPORTANT**
  • “Do as little as possible to elicit the most amount of change.”
– “Mind Pump Adam”
  • Pick one healthy habit to improve on at a time. A wealth of options leads to a poverty of focus.
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What is Starvation Mode? Are you eating too little?!

4/1/2023

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Have you ever been told the reason you’re not losing weight is because “you’re eating too little”. 

If so, I am also sure you have been told your body has gone into “starvation mode”. Where people tend to explain it, as your body is holding onto all your body fat because you haven’t been eating enough calories. 

Spoiler Alert: I’m here to explain to you why this is in fact a myth. 

As everything you hear in the fitness and health industry there is a sliver of truth behind this statement. In fact, I myself am guilty of using this phrase in the past. Thankfully I have continued to learn and research the science of our metabolism. 

Next let's break down the common definition of “starvation mode”. 

What is Starvation Mode?

Starvation mode is not a scientific term. It is a popular phrase used to imply that when you cut calories too low, your body goes into a protection mode, slowing your metabolism and calorie output so that you stop losing weight.

This concept is rooted in your body's survival mechanisms. If you ever found yourself without food for long periods of time, it would not be beneficial for your body to continue to burn calories at a normal rate; instead, your metabolism would shift to preserve as much energy as possible to prolong your life. But starving to death is not quite the same thing as dieting and you will still lose weight in the process of wasting away without food.

How Long Can You Survive Without Food?

With access to water and electrolytes, your body can survive for quite some time without food, depending on the person and how much body fat you have. Some research suggests that you can go more than a month without food. And in some religions, long fasts are commonly practiced with potential health benefits.


Starvation mode is not a real term, but metabolic adaption is, and it’s a known phenomenon. How drastically it affects your weight loss progress is another story.

Your body can compensate for decreased calories by slowing your metabolism down as much as 30% through adaptive thermogenesis. But the effects of adaptive thermogenesis are typically short-lived, and for most the difference could be as little as a 5% decrease in basal metabolic rate (BMR), and it does not indicate a damaged metabolism. 
So what is the verdict?

In all of the studies referenced to support starvation mode, weight loss was a factor. And it is crucial to note that any weight loss can cause you to have a lower BMR - since it just takes less energy to move around a smaller object.

Why You're Not Losing Weight and How to Fix it


If you find that you’ve hit a weight loss plateau, it does not mean you are in starvation mode. Some more common factors are likely at play, including the following:

You're Not Tracking Your Food Intake

It's pretty impossible to know if you are in a calorie deficit if you aren't tracking your food intake. Before assuming something else is at play, keeping an accurate food diary is the best place to start.

Even if you've been tracking, take a look at how diligent you are being with this habit.
  • Are you accurately portioning and weighing out the food you eat?
  • Are you including all foods and drinks, and tracking every day, even cheat days and weekends?
  • Are you including added toppings and ingredients like cooking oil, butter, salad dressings, etc.?

You can also use your tracking app to get weekly calorie and macro averages - this is the best way to see how well you’ve stuck to your diet consistently, as well as where you could use some work. 

You're Not Eating the Right Amount of Calories 

Typically, if you aren't losing weight, you are eating more calories than you think. Or if you've recently lost weight, you likely have a new maintenance calorie amount and may need to eat fewer calories to continue losing. This is why many popular weight loss plans will use a phased approach to cutting, helping you to stay in a calorie deficit and continue losing weight with incremental calorie cuts.

Start by figuring out how many calories you need to eat a day to maintain your current weight and then calculate your new weight loss calorie needs from that starting point. 

You're Always on a Diet

It might also just be that your body needs a break. If you've been dieting for more than a few months, it might be time to give your body time to adjust to your maintenance calorie level. Jumping from one diet to the next and constantly trying to cut calories can do more harm than good. It is much easier to stick to a diet and continue to get results if you understand how to maintain results in the first place. 

Been on a really low-calorie diet for a while and scared to add calories back in? Try upping your intake a few hundred calories a week to start, until you reach your maintenance level. And then stick to your maintenance for at least a month to give your time to adjust and reset your metabolism. 

You're Too Focused on the Scale

Oftentimes dieters are focused solely on fat loss, but their total body composition is crucial to getting better results and making them stick. Not to mention, if you are cutting calories too low for too long, you’re at risk of losing precious calorie burning tissue - your muscle.

Gaining muscle is essentially the opposite of “starvation mode”. Your muscle mass is the biggest determinant of your metabolic rate, and the more you have, the more you can eat and maintain your weight. Plus, muscle is the tissue behind that lean, toned look most of us are striving to achieve in the first place.   

While muscle growth is typically achieved through weight gain, which would ultimately increase your metabolism even further, it is possible for some people to build muscle in a calorie deficit. But at the very least, you should be focused on protecting your muscle while dieting.

To keep your lean mass intact while dieting, be sure to incorporate the following:
  • Lift weights: Research suggests that one of the best ways to maintain muscle is to keep it active and through regular strength training.
  • Eat more protein: Eating a high protein diet has a number of benefits for fat loss and has also been thought to help support your lean mass when cutting calories.

What are the Minimum Calories for Weight Loss? 

While starvation mode may not technically exist, starving yourself to lose weight is still not recommended. A very low-calorie diet may work at first, but it’s likely not going to do you favors in the long run. It can be dangerous for some people, lead to disordered eating habits, and does not typically lead to sustainable results, since most people do not change bad habits once they resume eating again. In addition, extreme dieting is impossible to maintain, causing painful hunger cues, irritability, mood swings, decreased energy, poor concentration, and sucks your willpower dry, all of which makes sticking to a diet that much harder. 

Instead, stick to a more attainable approach to dieting with no more than a 15-20% decrease from your estimated daily energy needs. Slow and steady weight loss of 0.5 to 1% body weight per week is much easier to keep off and you will be much happier and more successful with a more measured and sustainable diet plan approach.
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