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Losing weight in your 40s feels different than it did in your 20s and 30s—because it is! Many women notice that the strategies they once relied on (eating less, doing more cardio, skipping meals) no longer work. In fact, they often backfire, leading to stalled progress, low energy, and frustration.

The good news? Weight loss in your 40s is absolutely possible—you just need the right approach that supports your metabolism rather than wrecking it. Here’s how you can lose fat, build strength, and feel amazing without extreme dieting.
Why Losing Weight Feels Harder After 40Many women believe that weight gain in their 40s is just an unavoidable part of aging, but that’s not entirely true.

​The real reasons fat loss feels harder include:

✅ Hormonal Changes: Estrogen and progesterone start to fluctuate, affecting how your body stores fat—often leading to more accumulation around the midsection.
✅ Muscle Loss: If you aren’t actively working to maintain or build muscle, your body naturally loses it over time, slowing your metabolism.
✅ Higher Stress Levels: Busy careers, family responsibilities, and less time for self-care lead to higher cortisol levels, which can contribute to fat storage.
✅ Slower Recovery: Your body doesn’t bounce back as quickly, making excessive exercise and undereating even more harmful.

So what’s the solution? Instead of chasing quick fixes, you need a sustainable, metabolism-friendly approach.

5 Steps to Losing Weight Without Damaging Your Metabolism

1. Prioritize Protein for Fat Loss and Muscle Retention. Protein is non-negotiable if you want to lose fat without losing muscle. It helps keep you full, supports muscle maintenance, and even has a thermic effect—meaning your body burns more calories digesting it.

💡 Goal: Aim for 0.7-1g of protein per pound of body weight daily.
🔹 Simple ways to hit your protein target:

• Start every meal with a protein source (chicken, fish, lean beef, eggs, Greek yogurt, cottage cheese).
• Keep high-protein snacks on hand (protein shakes, boiled eggs, turkey roll-ups, jerky).
• Don’t fear protein powders—they’re a convenient way to boost intake!

2. Strength Train to Keep Your Metabolism High

If you’re relying solely on cardio to lose weight, you’re missing a key piece of the puzzle. Strength training helps you build and preserve muscle, which keeps your metabolism fast and prevents that dreaded “skinny fat” look.

💡 Goal: Train 3-4x per week, focusing on compound movements like squats, deadlifts, hip thrusts, bench presses, and pull-ups.

🔹 Strength training benefits:

• Increases metabolism, so you burn more calories even at rest.
• Improves bone density and joint health.
• Helps reshape your body so you look lean rather than just “smaller.”
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3. Stop Starving Yourself—Eat ENOUGH for Fat Loss

One of the biggest mistakes women make in their 40s is eating too little.

Severely cutting calories might lead to weight loss at first, but it also causes muscle loss, slows your metabolism, and increases cravings, making long-term fat loss nearly impossible.

💡 Solution: Instead of eating as little as possible, focus on eating enough to fuel your workouts and recovery. A reasonable calorie deficit (200-500 calories below maintenance) is plenty to see steady fat loss.
🔹 How to know if you’re eating too little:

• You feel constantly fatigued and irritable.
• You’ve hit a weight loss plateau despite eating less.
• You experience intense cravings or binge episodes.
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4. Balance Your Cardio—Don’t Overdo It

Cardio is great for heart health, but excessive cardio can increase stress hormones, break down muscle, and slow your metabolism.

💡 Goal: Instead of spending hours on the treadmill, aim for 2-3 days of cardio per week and make it intentional—think brisk walks, incline treadmill work, or short HIIT sessions.

🔹 Best cardio options for fat loss:

• Daily walks (at least 8,000 steps per day)
• 20-30 minutes of incline walking or cycling
• 1-2 short HIIT sessions per week (optional)
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5. Manage Stress & Prioritize SleepCortisol (your stress hormone) plays a huge role in fat loss, especially around the midsection. High stress combined with poor sleep can increase cravings, slow metabolism, and make weight loss feel impossible.

💡 Solution: Create habits that reduce stress and improve recovery.
🔹 Simple stress-reducing habits:

• Get 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night.
• Set boundaries with work and personal responsibilities.
• Take 5-10 minutes a day for deep breathing, meditation, or journaling.
• Prioritize hobbies and time outdoors to relax your nervous system.
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The Bottom Line: You CAN Lose Fat at 40+ Without Wrecking Your Metabolism

If your goal is to lose weight in your 40s and beyond, the old ways of dieting and endless cardio won’t cut it. Instead, focus on building muscle, eating enough protein, and managing stress.

By following these steps, you won’t just lose weight—you’ll feel stronger, have more energy, and create a body that looks and feels incredible for years to come.

🚀 Ready to lose fat and get strong without the diet rollercoaster? Stay tuned—I have something coming soon that will help you get there! 💪🔥


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 As the holiday season approaches, it’s easy to put yourself on the back burner. Between gift shopping, cooking, decorating, and family obligations, many women feel stretched thin. But what if prioritizing yourself during the holidays could do more than just benefit you? What if it could create a ripple effect of positivity that spreads to your family, friends, and community?
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Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s the key to showing up as your best self for the people you care about. And when you prioritize your health and happiness, others often follow suit. Let’s dive into how self-care during the holidays can inspire those around you and create lasting change.

1. You Set an Example for Healthy Habits - When you make intentional choices—like preparing balanced meals, staying active, or managing stress—you set a powerful example for those around you. For instance, your kids may notice that you’re opting for a protein-packed breakfast instead of skipping meals, which teaches them the importance of fueling their bodies. Or your partner might join you for a post-dinner walk instead of lounging on the couch.
Actionable Tip: Show your family that balance is achievable. Enjoy holiday treats but also emphasize the importance of nourishing foods. Invite them to join you in fun, active traditions like a family hike or a game of backyard football.

2. You Inspire Confidence and Self-Worth - Many women struggle with self-doubt, especially during the holidays when body image pressures can heighten. When you show confidence in your decisions—like not feeling guilty about indulging or skipping a workout without shame—it sends a powerful message to others. By modeling self-compassion, you give others permission to treat themselves with kindness.
Actionable Tip: Speak openly about your journey. Share how you balance your goals with enjoying the season, and encourage others to focus on progress, not perfection.

3. You Improve the Energy of the Household - Stress and overwhelm can easily spread to those around you. However, when you take time for self-care—whether through a 10-minute meditation, an early morning workout, or simply stepping outside for fresh air—you come back recharged and more patient. This calm energy can influence your household, helping everyone feel more at ease.
Actionable Tip: Set boundaries with your time. Explain to your family why prioritizing your well-being benefits everyone, and involve them in the process. For example, you can designate a “quiet hour” where everyone takes time to recharge.

4. You Foster a Culture of Gratitude - When you practice gratitude for your body, your health, and your progress, others are likely to mirror that mindset. Gratitude is contagious—it encourages those around you to focus on what they have, rather than what they lack.
Actionable Tip: Start a family gratitude ritual during the holidays. Each evening, share one thing you’re grateful for. This practice can shift everyone’s focus to positivity.

5. You Show Others That Change Is Possible - Your actions can inspire friends or family members who may feel stuck in their own health journey. Whether they see you handling holiday stress with grace, sticking to your workout routine, or enjoying holiday meals without guilt, you demonstrate that achieving balance is not only possible—it’s rewarding.
Actionable Tip: Share your wins (big or small) with your support network. Whether it’s on social media or in a conversation with a friend, your story could be the spark they need to make their own changes.

6. You Build Stronger Connections - When you’re feeling your best, you’re more present in your relationships. Instead of worrying about food choices or skipping a workout, you can focus on creating memories with loved ones. This positive energy strengthens bonds and creates a ripple of joy.
Actionable Tip: Plan activities that combine connection with movement, like a family walk to look at Christmas lights or a holiday-themed fitness challenge with friends.

Final Thoughts - The holidays can be a time of stress, but they’re also an opportunity to plant seeds of positive change. By prioritizing yourself—your health, your happiness, and your goals—you create a ripple effect that can transform not just your life, but the lives of those around you.


If you’re ready to start creating your own ripple effect, I’m here to help. My Rise Method program is designed to help busy women like you balance their health and their lives without extreme dieting or sacrificing the joys of the season. Let’s build a healthier, happier you—starting today.

👉 Click here to learn more and schedule your free coaching call.

By: Coach Kayli

In this blog I'm gonna breakdown the basics of losing fat and gaining muscle at the same time, aka "body recomposition."

Today, I'll teach you what it is, how it's possible, and who it works best for.

I wanna keep this jam packed with high value and minimal fluff, so let's jump right into it.

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To cut or to bulk... why not both?

Fitness experts call body recomp the "holy grail" of getting in-shape because it's the goal everyone is chasing.

Even after reading this, you're probably thinking, "this is what I thought I've always been doing?"

And you likely have, to an extent, but not nearly as optimized as you could.

Which, unfortunately, is probably causing you to "spin your wheels" with progress.

This may sound harsh, but if you look roughly the same or worse as you did ~3-6 months ago, you're spinning your wheels.

It's OK, though! Everyone goes through this period and has to learn the hard way.

You need to be more intentional with your goals, and that's what I'm here for.

If you're more serious/experienced, you are likely either cutting (prioritizing fat loss) or bulking (prioritizing muscle gain), and alternating cycles between each. E.g., cutting for summer, then bulking during winter.

This strategy works, but is outdated for "normal folks" and more suitable for more advanced trainees, like elite level bodybuilders or athletes.

They workout almost daily, and have entire years mapped out with their diet and exercise, periodized down to the week. For them, this is necessary, and they wouldn't respond well to trying to do both at the same time.

If this is you, hey, keep at it!

If not, you're likely in one of two camps:

1. Consciously bulking or cutting
2. Thinking you're doing both at the same time, but actually "spinning your wheels"

Both are leaving SO much progress on the table, working harder than necessary for worse results.

Again, don't get down ⏤ I've been there and most other people are in the same boat without realizing.

The good news is that you're now aware of it.

The better news is that you can disrupt old patterns and unlock tons of unrealized gains.

Here's why that's possible if you do it correctly...

Your 2 body composition "bank accounts": muscle tissue and fat tissue

Many people incorrectly assume that "fat can be turned into muscle" or vice versa.

That's not how it works.

Muscle tissue and fat tissue are two separate systems.

So imagine each as a separate bank account. (H/t Jeff Nippard for this.)

We can withdraw money from the fat bank account by using a "smart" calorie deficit, i.e., not too big or too small of a deficit.

While simultaneously depositing money into the muscle building account through intelligent strength training and eating enough protein at the right times.

You can guarantee this outcome more by optimizing things like nutrient timing around workouts, stress management, supplements, and sleep.

To be clear, this is more difficult.

It requires a precise approach built for you and your body, plus weekly consistency and ongoing adjustments.

But it is possible, and the payoff is huge.
(See what I did there?)

Oh, and if you want to review the science to back this up and double check me, see HERE, HERE, and HERE.

Is the body recomposition approach right for you?

There are about four different types of people who will benefit the most from this approach.

1. New lifters (<1 year): most primed you'll ever be for muscle growth and fat loss.
2. Overweight/Obese lifters: lots of body fat in reserves, so you can use excess fat stores to fuel muscle growth
3. Detrained lifters: who have stopped training for 3+ months; can rebound and regain muscle twice as fast
4. "Sub-optimized" lifters: might've been lifting for years, but working out and eating "incorrectly"

And if you overlap between two or more of those, that means you're an excellent candidate for this.

Two additional types of people who I've successfully coached using these methods are people who would identify as "skinny fat" or people who have hit a plateau and can't seem to bust past it no matter what they try.

If any of these feel like you, body recomp is definitely worth trying out.

Ok, I'm going to cut it here.

Now you know what body recomposition is, how it's possible, and who it's for.

Join us Here in our private FB community to catch the key components of a successful recomp.

You won't want to miss it. Talk to you then.
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-Kayli
P.S. Any questions? Just comment below.
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Embarking on a weight loss journey can be challenging, especially when you're committed to shedding those stubborn pounds but see minimal results. If you're wondering why your body fat isn't budging, you're not alone. In this blog post, we'll explore the top 10 reasons that might be hindering your fat loss progress and provide practical solutions to overcome these obstacles.
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Inadequate Caloric Deficit:

• Achieving a caloric deficit is crucial for weight loss, but it's equally important not to overdo it. Fad diets like Keto, Vegan, Carnivor, etc.,  may lead to nutrient deficiencies and a slower metabolism. Focus on a moderate caloric deficit and a balanced diet to ensure sustained fat loss.

Lack of Consistency in Workouts:

• Inconsistent workout routines can impede your progress. Your body needs regular physical activity to burn calories and boost metabolism. Incorporate a mix of strength training and cardio exercises, and stay consistent with your workout schedule.

High Stress Levels:

• Chronic stress triggers the release of cortisol, a hormone that promotes fat storage, particularly around the abdominal area. Implement stress-management techniques such meditation, deep breathing, or yoga to keep cortisol levels in check.

Poor Sleep Quality:

• Inadequate sleep disrupts hormonal balance, affecting hunger hormones like ghrelin and leptin. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night to support fat loss and overall well-being.

Undereating or Overeating:

• Both extremes can hinder your progress. Undereating slows down metabolism, while overeating leads to excess calorie intake. Find a balance by eating nutrient-dense foods in appropriate portions.

Lack of Protein in Diet:

• Protein is essential for muscle preservation and metabolism. Ensure your diet includes an adequate amount of lean protein sources such as poultry, fish, beans, and tofu to support fat loss. A good target to aim for is .7-1g per pound of your target goal weight. Example: If you want to be 150lbs aim for 120-150g of protein daily.  

Inefficient Hydration:

• Dehydration can be mistaken for hunger, leading to unnecessary calorie consumption. Stay adequately hydrated throughout the day to support metabolism and curb unnecessary snacking.

Sedentary Lifestyle:

• Sitting for extended periods slows down metabolism. Incorporate movement into your daily routine, such as taking short walks, using a standing desk, or doing quick workouts during breaks.

Medical Conditions:

• Certain medical conditions, like hypothyroidism or insulin resistance, can hinder weight loss. Consult with a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying issues and tailor your approach accordingly.

Ineffective Goal Setting:

• Unrealistic goals or a lack of specific targets can demotivate you. Set achievable, measurable goals and celebrate your progress along the way to stay motivated on your fat loss journey. 

Conclusion:
Identifying and addressing these roadblocks can pave the way for successful fat loss. Remember, patience and consistency are key. Consult with a qualified nutrition coach or personal trainer to personalize your approach and maximize your results. Your fitness journey is unique, and understanding these reasons can help you overcome obstacles and achieve your body fat loss goals.

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Fitness and nutrition are absolute staples to being your happiest, healthiest self. The problem is, some people take it too far. Coach Kayli and I have seen people lose a significant amount of weight and find themselves obsessing over their food, weight, fitness, clothes, etc. This really isn’t that uncommon. We usually see this when a person has struggled with emotional eating or binge eating. They lose body fat, but they never treated the root cause of the emotional eating. As with health, you have to treat the root cause or the issue doesn’t go away. Usually emotional eating is caused by unhealed trauma. When a person loses weight but doesn’t work on healing old trauma, they simply replace the old unhealthy coping mechanism with a new unhealthy coping mechanism. We see them go from binging food to not eating, obsessively weighing themselves, or overexercising. These habits can be just as dangerous for people as overeating.  The key to being successful is obtaining and maintaining a healthy relationship with food. Here are some signs that you may have an unhealthy relationship with food:

• Obsessively weighing
• You’re completely inflexible about food - Choosing to not eat if there isn’t a “healthy” option present
• You think about food all the time
• You prefer to eat in private
• Food guilt distracts you from conversations
• You feel the need to work off food you eat 
• Yesterday’s lunch makes you hate yourself
• You feel ashamed when you eat something you’re not supposed to eat
• You punish yourself for eating something that deviates from the rules
• You deny yourself food you really crave
• You worry about having food to eat in social settings
• You cut out entire food groups, like carbs or fat
• You eat foods even though they make you feel bad
• You’re always either on a diet or off a diet, no middle ground
• You’re embarrassed about the amount of food you ate
• You binge on food unconsciously

If you recognize any of these traits, it may be time for you to reach out to a mental health professional to help you work through any issues you may have with food. Disordered eating is a legitimate issue that you should address. You shouldn’t live your life chained by food or fitness. Food and fitness should be things you enjoy and tools to help you live healthy.

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Welcome to 2024!
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 As we dive into the new year, let's focus on what really matters for fat-loss. I'm not about quick fixes or fads. It's all about practical steps you can actually stick to. This is my 9th January working in fitness, and I'm often inspired and rejuvenated by the new year too. Many people bash "resolutions," making it feel vulnerable to admit having big health goals for the new year. But you aren't alone. There are plenty of others watching this who want to improve how they look, move, and feel.

The number one thing I hear from people at the beginning of each new year is their desire to lose weight, closely followed by wishes to eat "better" and "exercise more."
Let’s tackle two out of these three: losing weight and eating better. These are the two things (besides maybe better sleep) that will help you feel better.

So here is Tip #1 of the 10 no-nonsense strategies to help you lose fat more easily this year.

1. Go Slow, Be Patient: Losing 1 pound 50 times is more realistic than dropping 50 pounds at once. Patience is key. Weight loss really does take time, and it's rarely linear. Meaning there will almost always be periods on your weight-loss journey where your weight might not be going down (in fact, it might even be going up, yikes). But, as the saying goes, "knowing is half the battle". If you know that losing weight takes time, if you know that rates of 1-2 pounds/week tend to be more sustainable, and if you trust the process you will get there.
   
   1 pound/week is 52 pounds in a year.
   2 pound(s)/week is 104 pounds in a year.
   
   Don't freak out when you see your weight bump up *one* day.

 

1. Stay Hydrated: This is one of the ones that will help in the looking and feeling better department. Few things will have your hair, skin, and nails looking better than drinking more water. Additionally, water will no doubt keep you fuller and result in you eating fuller calories (the key to weight loss).
   
   Which is why, in a part of the year that's all about habit formation, I beg that you consider just drinking some more water.
   
   This is without a doubt the easiest of all the things I've put on this list today, and it will help you look, move, and feel better - while making fat-loss easier.
   
   I aim for around 75oz of water/day. You can push that as high as a gallon/day. But a good rule of thumb is around half your bodyweight (in pounds) in oz. of water.

 

1. Protein is Your Friend: Build your meals around PROTEIN.
   
   If you follow me on social media, or subscribe to my podcast, then you know how I feel about protein.
   
   Of the three macronutrients (protein, carbs, and fats) protein has the greatest impact on:
   
   - body composition
   - muscle mass
   - fat loss
   
   Protein keeps you full, fuels muscle growth, and promotes changes in body composition. To take advantage of the "power of protein" do this:
   
   - aim for 0.6-1.0 grams of protein per pound of bodyweight in grams of protein/day. If you are heavier, you can use your "goal weight" instead of your bodyweight.
   
   - spread that out across the day. I'm talking 4,5,6 protein "feedings"/day.
   
   - lots of protein rich snacks.

 

1. Fiber and Veggies: Every meal should have them. Think fruits, veggies, whole grains. A list of my favorite sources of fiber, fruit, greens, etc.
   
   - apples
   - berries
   - carrots
   - beans
   - whole wheat bread
   - rice
   - oats
   - spinach
   - green beans
   - peas
   
   Don't make this a bigger deal than it needs to be. Your mother was absolutely correct in her assertion that you need your veggies to grow up healthy and strong.

 

1. Rethink Snacking and Beware "Caloric Leak": Out with ultra-processed, hyper-palatable options. In with high-protein, high-fiber choices.
   
   Snack on more things like yogurt, cottage cheese, protein shakes, protein bars, carrots, apples, grapes, berries, cheese, etc.
   
   Snack way less on things like chips, cookies, candies, pastries.
   
   And CUT the liquid calories. This is a HUGE HUGE driver of what I call "caloric leak".
   
   Huge sources of caloric leak: condiments, creamers, anything you "graze", bite, lick, taste, or sip, coffees, lattes, alcohol, dips, aioli, etc.

 

1. Audit Your Kitchen: What's in your fridge and pantry matters more than you think.
   
   Load those two things up with things you regularly snack on and use for meals.
   
   As for the freezer, I'm a huge fan of keeping frozen proteins, fruits, and vegetables to quickly build meals and prepare ahead.
   
   What's in your fridge, pantry, and freezer, tends to end up in your belly. Well, except the bag salad you buy every week only to throw out after it expires.
   
   So take a few hours and overhaul what you have access to at home (to the best of your current abilities of course).

 

1. Move More: Less sitting, more stepping. It's about movement, not just calories burned. Nothing makes fat-loss harder than being categorically sedentary.
   
   Besides being a small, sedentary woman. Then it's really hard.
   
   The smaller your body mass, and the less you move, the harder fat-loss is.
   
   The larger your body mass, and the more you move, the easier fat-loss is.
   
   There's nothing magic about getting 10,000 steps/day. But that's all time not spent eating, spent moving, spent outside (often), and all that matters for fat-loss much more than the calories you actually burn moving.
   
   Aim for 10,000 steps/day.

 

1. Don't Underestimate Sleep: It's crucial for mood, willpower, and appetite control. Good sleep aids in fat-loss and muscle retention.
   
   It also helps you feel much better and recover from hard workouts.
   
   This is harder for people and families with kids, shift workers, and other populations, but if you can make the time for a little more sleep, fat-loss and eating better become much easier.
   
   One of the big reasons being that time spent sleeping isn't time spent eating.

 

1. Keep It Simple: Avoid crazy diets and extreme rules. If it's not sustainable for a month, it's not sustainable at all.
   
   All your fat-loss and food behavior change efforts need to have staying power to work. Because changing your body is a slow process. So a diet you can only do for 2-3 weeks isn't going to cut it unless you only want to lose 8-10 pounds. And even then... kinda sketchy.

 

1. Consider Cutting Alcohol: It's often a primary culprit in weight gain. Plus, it disrupts sleep and recovery. So if you can cut it, and try a "dry January" I would do it.
   
   Nothing is going to change the way you "feel" more quickly than giving up the booze for a bit if you like to indulge.
   
   You might try the same with something else you enjoy that isn't serving your health, maybe it's coffee in the morning, smoking, toxic behavior, who knows. It's the new year, which means it's a great time to take inventory of what isn't serving you, and leave it behind (if you can) in the new year.

That's what I have for you today. But I'll keep dropping by with little blurbs as the year goes on. I want to help make 2024 your fittest year yet.

Stay strong, Coach Kayli!

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Here are 3 mistakes every woman over 40 needs to avoid.

Technically, these are 3 mistakes everyone who wants to improve their body composition and get leaner needs to avoid.

But women are more sensitive to stress so they can't get away with as much.

It's not fair but it does make sense from an evolutionary standpoint. Women are more important to the survival of our species than men. Ya know, the whole baby carrying thing.

Anyway, in no particular order...

Mistake #1. Fasting or "skipping breakfast" - let's first put to bed the myth that fasting is superior for fat loss. It's not. Fasting isn't even a nutrition protocol. You can fast and do keto, you can fast and track macros, you can fast and eat 10,000 calories per day.

The fasting cult followers say that if you condense the feeding window, you're more likely to eat less because there's less time to eat. Certain things sound good in theory but don't hold up to real life application.

Fasting is one of them. Studies show that people who fast tend to eat a lot more later in the day and it's easier for them to over indulge. They also report higher hunger and cravings. And there are certain metabolic disadvantages that can occur due to fasting.

This is especially true in women over 40 who are more sensitive to stress. Cortisol is highest in the morning and fasting is a stress on the body (lack of energy coming in). During the season of life when hormonal changes are happening, it's not the time to disrupt things even further.

My recommendation: wake up and eat within an hour of getting out of bed. Make it a high protein breakfast and a well balanced meal (with some carbs and fats) to reduce cortisol and keep blood sugar stable.

Mistake #2. HIIT / Group Classes / Cardio - this is a dose dependent thing but based on experience in working with hundreds of women over the past decade, a lot of individuals overdo it when it comes to this style of exercise.

I'm talking about OrangeTheory, F45, bootcamps, HIIT, cardio, etc. Anything where the main goal of the workout is basically a manual "calorie burn" and you often feel rewarded with a pool of sweat on the floor.

Now, before you stop doing all forms of cardio, there's absolutely a time and place. Improving your cardio capacity is great for overall health. Sweating is a wonderful thing.

However, it's easy to get hooked on the feeling. Or high on believing. Wait, where was I? Oh right.. too much cardio.

This style of exercise is not exactly great for your metabolism or hormone health. It's a stressor like any form of exercise (increases cortisol) but it doesn't come with a metabolic advantage like lifting weights does. Because you're getting more efficient with calories each time you do that same workout or form of cardio.

That means the calorie burn gets less and less. Not only that, but studies show that HIIT and cardio can drive hunger and cravings up and our bodies also subconsciously move less throughout the day to compensate for the calorie burn that occurred during the workout.

My recommendation: this style of training is not great for body composition improvements. If you want to get leaner, do some form of resistance training as the foundation of your workouts. Use cardio in smaller doses and be sure to pay attention to recovery, hunger, and cravings. Notice how you're impacted when you work out like that.

If you're training to get better at cardio (like running a marathon or ironman etc) then you'll obviously need a much higher level of frequency. In that case, you better be prepared to fuel appropriately to counter balance the amount of stress you're putting on your body.

Mistake #3. Dieting too frequently / too extremely / unsustainably - once again, this is a problem across the board but when you're more sensitive to stress, it becomes an even bigger issue.

Dieting is a major stressor on the body. Consider that your results, your metabolic health, and your hormone health are all dependent on having the appropriate resources to meet the demands you place on your body.

Food / energy is an important resource. Recovery is a resource. Sleep is a resource. Self-care is a resource.

Dieting impacts all of the above. You're removing energy, impairing recovery, making it more difficult to get adequate sleep, and potentially sacrificing self-care.

A lot of women get frustrated when they're told to basically starve themselves and then don't see progress. Why don't they see progress? Because the diet is too extreme and your body fights to preserve energy.

Think about it like this.. do you really want a fast and effective metabolism when very little energy is coming in? Of course you don't. You'd starve to death quicker.

So your body adapts by down regulating metabolic function, suppressing certain systems in the body like immune function, sexual function, etc.

The more frequently you diet, the more stress you place on your body. The more extreme your diet is, the more of a stressor it is. The more you try to be perfect, the more unsustainable the results are.

My recommendation: diet smarter, not harder. Have a dedicated fat loss phase that lasts about 12-16 weeks (the timeline will be highly dependent on the individual). Keep it very moderate and if you're going to be more aggressive, you better damn well have recovery and stress management on lock.

Eat mostly high quality foods and incorporate things you love in moderation each day (or at least each week). Avoid the half in, half out approach where you kinda sorta diet but then indulge and want to keep dieting forever.

Unfortunately, these 3 mistakes are insanely common.

In fact, they're often all done at once.

Almost daily I speak to women who are trying to fast, eat 1200 calories, and are doing a whole bunch of cardio or HIIT.

When you reach that season of life when hormones are changing and sensitivity to stress is higher, it's important to focus on some foundational habits that go a long way in your overall health and body composition.

Food quality should really be a primary focus. It's incredibly important for hormone health.

Walking is like the gift that keeps on giving. Do it frequently.

Protein is your best friend. Eat lots of it.

Muscle is your metabolic gold. Preserve it. Build it.

Sleep and stress management are non negotiables. If anyone gets in the way of your sleep and self-care, you have permission to Will Smith them (is that still a reference? Probably not. But I'm using it anyway).

Above all else, prioritize yourself. I just spoke to someone this morning who said that she's spent 45 years of her life putting everyone else first. She said that she's always made financial decisions based on everyone else. Rarely ever herself.

Finally, it clicked. She said, enough is enough. I'm worth it and I deserve to be happy and healthy. The most impactful thing she said in our conversation was...

"It doesn't do anyone much good if I lack confidence in myself and feel miserable in my own body. I deserve to feel good and look good."

Without a doubt. You don't have to put your own goals on hold for the sake of everyone else. Not only do you deserve to look and feel how you want but the people you care about the most deserve the best version of you.

And that requires prioritizing yourself. Investing in yourself. And spending your time accordingly.

If you don't know where to start, simply ask. I can always point you in the right direction.

Much love, Kayli

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